Remember this song….

Longer than there’ve been fishes in the ocean
Higher than any bird ever flew
Longer than there’ve been stars up in the heavens
I’ve been in love with you.

Stronger than any mountain cathedral
Truer than any tree ever grew
Deeper than any forest primeval
I am in love with you.

I’ll bring fires in the winters
You’ll send showers in the springs
We’ll fly through the falls and summers
With love on our wings.

Through the years as the fire starts to mellow
Burning lines in the book of our lives
Though the binding cracks and the pages start to yellow
I’ll be in love with you.

Longer than thereve been fishes in the ocean
Higher than any bird ever flew
Longer than thereve been stars up in the heavens
I’ve been in love with you
I am in love with you..
 
—-that is still one of my all time favorites!



Racing Blind

Alyssa Rossi, Nicole Todd

Blind high school runner, and her team, are a sight to behold

Michael Robinson Chavez / Los Angeles Times
Alyssa Rossi, right, is guided along by Royal High teammate Nicole Todd during a workout.
Simi Valley Royal High senior Alyssa Rossi, blind since birth, is able to compete thanks to the help and sacrifices of teammates.
Bill Plaschke
February 22, 2009
At the end of another tough week for teamwork, with major leaguers lying and NBA stars feuding, they ran alone.

In Simi Valley, across a grassy field in the lengthening shadow of nearby hills, they ran together.

Two girls, side by side, stride for stride, connected by the stretched cotton of a gray belt and the giant arms of innocence.

One girl is blind.

The other girl is teaching the rest of us to see.

One girl, Alyssa Rossi, born without vision, is the newest senior runner on the Royal High track team.

The other girl, Nicole Todd, is the sophomore teammate making this possible.

Rossi runs a mile, Todd runs with her, gently guiding her with the gray belt that is connected to a thicker black belt around Rossi’s waist.

When Rossi slows, Todd forsakes her own training schedule and slows.

When Rossi speeds up, Todd runs even faster to watch for bumps and curves.

When Rossi grows breathless and has to stop, Todd stops too, even if the sophomore could use more work.

“At first I wondered if this was the best thing for me,” Todd said. “Then I realized, this is not about me.”

She smiled, and you want to wrap the sports world in this smile, one born of the basic instincts of teamwork, one that glitters with the very best of sport.

Since Royal High began training several weeks ago, many teammates have shouldered that assignment, and shared that smile.

One girl will guide Rossi from the locker room to the track. Another will run with her around the huge sports complex. Another will run with her on the street. Another will accompany her in sprints.

For the last several days, her full-time partner has been Todd, but before that, seemingly everybody helped.

“Let’s see, I don’t know last names yet, I don’t know all their voices yet, but I do remember those who have been here for me,” Rossi said. “There’s Nicole, Leah, Lorely, Shayne, Cory, Carly . . .”

The list goes on and on, Rossi giggling with each name, unearthed treasures on this most unexpected of journeys.

“It’s really an awesome thing, because it must be really hard for them,” Rossi said. “In fact, I bet it’s just as hard for them as is it for me.”

She shook her head.

“I’ve always been blind, but I know they’ve never had to do something like this.”

Yet from the beginning, they have done it voluntarily, raising their hands and grabbing the belt and connecting her to themselves and their world.

“This just shows you that kids get it,” said Jay Sramek, the Highlanders’ innovative coach. “Kids understand how important it is to include someone. Kids just understand what it means to be a team.”

Sramek also understands, because he says there was a time he didn’t.

Several years ago, he dismissed an autistic runner from one of his teams because of liability concerns. When Rossi phoned him in the fall to ask to join the cross-country team for the first time, he had the same fears.

Then a couple of months later, he saw her singing in church, thought about the autistic child, realized he had another chance to fill a student’s dreams, and changed his mind.

“I heard her voice and I felt like it was God talking to me,” he said. “Right then I said, I’m going to make this happen.”

Rossi had run before, in her first two high school years at Lancaster Desert Christian, but her main partner had been a teacher.

Since transferring to Royal in her junior year, she had encountered resistance in attempting to run again.

“When I said I wanted to run, the people here were kind of like, ‘What?’ ” she recalled. “They just weren’t sure how I’d do it.”

So when Sramek finally invited her to tryouts, she was thrilled, but worried.

“I knew I would need other students to help me, and I knew I would slow them down,” she said.

But she quickly realized that, in terms of perspective, she had come to the right place.

Not only are Sramek’s teams good — undefeated in the Marmonte League last year — but they are accomplished in the classroom, with the highest GPA among sports teams on campus.

And they have these funny little rules. If you don’t say “please,” you’re cut. If you don’t say “excuse me,” you’re cut.

Sramek routinely eliminates kids from tryouts if their attitude doesn’t match their speed.

“I want them to know it’s about more than sports out here,” he says. “We also learn about ourselves.”

So it was no surprise to him that, during the first team meeting, after he described Rossi’s needs, one girl immediately raised her hand to volunteer to help.

“I couldn’t imagine what she’s going through,” sophomore Leah Calderon said. “If she was willing to do this, then I should be willing to help.”

Soon they all fell in line, taking turns with the new girl, who will be given the same assistance when she runs the 800 and 1,600 meters in competition when the season starts.

Some girl will give up her race to run Rossi’s race. And they can’t wait.

“I was out there with her the other day, and I closed my eyes for two seconds, and I freaked out,” Todd said. “I’m like, how does she do it? Why does she do it? And how could we not help her?”

Rossi, whose times have been slowed by two years of inactivity, heard the familiar questions and smiled again.

“I’m not a good runner, but I love the challenge, I love to conquer it,” she said.

The girls ask if she gets scared running in an eternal dark.

“I’ve never seen anything, so I don’t know what’s there, so it doesn’t matter,” she said.

Instead, she says, she soaks in the feeling of the wind on her face, the crunching beneath her feet, the possibility of a wonderfully soaking rain.

Even the perspiration, she loves.

“I put lotion on my arms, so when I sweat, I’m filled with this wonderful scent of vanilla,” she said.

Sweating even harder are her partners, who are still worried about leading her into a divot or ditch. To fight this fear, Todd devised names for each portion of the mile-long run around the school’s recreational complex.

Chocolate Tree. Tricky Terrain. Bubbly Bumps.

They whisper the names together, they laugh together, two girls, one team, running with such symmetry it eventually becomes impossible to tell who is guiding whom.

bill.plaschke@latimes.com



And the Oscar goes to….

….Kate Winslett……One of my favorites AND she gave one of my favorite all time acceptance speeches.  Didn’t you just love it when she stood up there and said her mom and dad were somewhere in the audience and “Dad, whistle or something so I’ll know where you are” and he did!! 

The whole show was filled with great moments, great productions and Hugh Jackman may be my new favorite host of the show!  Who knew he could sing and dance like that?

(sorry, in order to get Kate, i couldn’t cut out winners Sean Penn-best actor– and Slum Dug Millionare–Best picture).

'Slumdog' triumphs at Academy Awards



Dear Donna

(** ever write a note to yourself?  this is one of those times for me)

Dear Donna,

I’m glad to see you at the coffee shop trying it again……that writing thing.  You’ve been neglectful as of late with that.  You’ve let a thousand little things slip in the way of your writing time…..things that are not nearly as important as the writing.  But you already know that.

You do remember that it was a gift that was given to you, right?  You do know that the gift involves you putting some time and effort into it?  The magic happens when you pick up the pen and paper…or the laptop…or go to the piano.

Do you remember writing that first song?  You had that one idea…….”someone said pray”.  You loved that.  You’ve been in the middle of those times, when it was difficult, when there were tears, when the burden was so heavy and someone said “let’s pray.”  When you heard those words you heard them with a melody.  You would sing it to yourself, but not anyone else yet.  Until that one evening when you and your sister met up with an old youth pastor who played some songs he’d written.  

Your heart started beating a little harder….like when you want to stand up in church and testify about something…..and you finally got brave enough and said, “would you mind listening to something?  i think it may be a song.”  And you played it for the first time with someone else listening.  It was only a first verse and a chorus.  And he said the words that would spur you on to write……”if you don’t finish it, i will!”

That was all it took.  So in January of 2002, you finally wrote it down, and then another and then another.

You loved every minute.  You couldn’t wait to get to the piano.  You got ideas and inspiration from everywhere.  

You wrote, you recorded, you made new songwriting friends, you co-wrote with a few of them.  You shared your music at churches, banquets and retreats.  You marveled at what God was doing.

So what’s up?  There’s more to be written.  There are things that only you can say.  There are moments that only you can bring to the page.

Are you afraid?  You know you tend to do that.  Give up right when things are going good.  What is that about you?  

Yeah, there have been a few battles lately.  Are you going to let them take you down?  Are you going to let them find you brusied and licking your wounds, or are you going to dust yourself off and get up and march on?

There are plenty of wounded friends out there.  Write for them.  Write about what it’s like.  Write about not thinking you can make it, but then finding, somehow, the miraculous grace to go on.  Write about how it feels to be loved by an amazing Savior every day, when you don’t deserve even His thoughts about you.

Donna, i’m writing to say please don’t quit.  Please embrace what you love and know that it’s okay to love it.  It’s okay to disappear at the piano for hours and let your soul pour out.  It’s okay to stare at a blank screen and long to fill it up with words that translate your passion to poetry.

Don’t let the dream disintegrate with the distractions.  

Remember the verse that still speaks to you……. “to whom much has been given, much is required.”

And that the greatest blessing of a gift, is the ability to give it back to someone else.    



Friday ramblings

….I totally turned the alarm clock off this morning and went back to sleep!  I don’t know why i don’t use the snooze button.  I’ve done this several times lately…..i guess i wake up and think i’m actually going to get up on the first buzzer?

…..it’s going to be cold tonight. whoopee!  you know where i’ll be….in front of the fireplace

…..i’m glad you can’t see my houseslippers.  they are totally ratty and i need a new pair.  they only cost about $6, but i wear my slippers until they practically fall apart…..

…..i haven’t been in a Starbucks for four weeks.  what’s up with that?

…..Paige and some of the other youth leave for Camp Adrian today for a weekend retreat.  please say a prayer for them.

…..no one makes cornbread and pinto beans like my mom

…..i never did see a good jogging suit on sale this season. 

…..both girls had a band performance last night.  both are second chair on their respective instruments.  i am so proud of my girls

…..ever find it easier to pray and believe God for someone else, but not yourself?

…..here’s hoping we get our computer up and running at home again

…..saw Carrie Underwood sing, “I Told You So” on CMT videos this morning.  It was a performance at the Grand Ole Opry.  I guess it was originally recorded by Randy Travis, because he came out after she was done and almost freaked her out!  He talked about how great her version was of that song and of course she said no one could do it like he did.  I wonder what makes new artists go and record old songs?  There are so many good ones out there….how do they finally decide it’s time to revive something like “I Told You So”?  Good choice though, Carrie.   



Tuesday

I am still so happy about cleaning out my garage on Saturday.  Sometimes i just open the door and look out there to take it all in again….a clean and organized garage.  Okay, almost.  Still have a rack of clothes that have to go to the church for the youth yard sale and a couple of odds-n-ends pieces of furniture to decide what to do with, but we’re close!

My friend L. is heading this way from Ohio next weekend.  Can’t wait to see her again.  I haven’t seen her since our cruise last summer. 

She’s one of those people they write friendship poems about. 

She’s the real thing.

I had no idea we’d be friends when we first met.

I totally judged her on the way she looked.

She was tall and beautiful.

She came to church with a neat husband and three beautiful (and beautifully dressed) children.

She had manicured nails and gorgeous red hair that was always perfectly styled.

She was nice but sort of quiet and reserved.

And somehow all of that added up to “she would never want to be friends with me.”

But then you know me…..not one to be defeated long…….always out to make a new friend.

So one day i did it.

I filled out one of the encouragement cards in the pew.  (we used to keep those cards in the pew racks and you could write a note to someone to encourage them, let them know you were thinking of them, put it in the offering plate and the ushers would deliver to the intended recipient)

I missed putting it in the offering plate and after the service i looked around and it seemed that L. was gone.  I went outside and saw her about to drive off.

I don’t know what possessed me but i actually RAN up to her car, waving that little blue card.  She stopped and hesitantly rolled her window down.

I said, “i’m sorry to stop you, but i just wanted to give this to you.”  She took it and thanked me.

She drove off and i began to think what a crazy nut i was.

That was the beginning of our friendship that has lasted 15 years.

When she found out she was leaving Valdosta she gave me a gift.  It was a special “notetaking journal” to take notes on sermons and special messages.  Anyway, i was flipping through the journal and she’d written a special note in the back that basically said the day i waved that blue card at her, changed her life.  She had no idea someone would care that much and want to be her friend.

yeah, L…….it changed my life too!



My exciting weekend!

You know when it all piles up and you can’t take it anymore?  Well, that was me this weekend.

The girls were both gone (to different places) Friday night and B. was all stopped up with a cold so i knew there wasn’t going to be any hot date for steak and baked potato, so i did the next best thing…i cleaned.

I got into all the rooms and did some sprucing up.  It was time to mop all the hardwood floors and vacuum rugs and all that good stuff.  i won’t bore you with all the bathroom cleaning details, but needless to say i left that till last because it’s my least favorite job.

I could have saved all that for my girls to help me with on Saturday except for one thing….i had big plans for cleaning out the garage on Saturday and i knew i could only do that if i woke up to a clean house.  I know that probably sounds weird, but i just knew that i couldn’t handle the two chores going on at the same time, and since the girls weren’t handy Friday night, i just did it myself.

Turns out it was a good thing, cause the girls weren’t really around on Saturday either.  Turns out that Paige spent the night with the friend she was with and K. had big V-day plans with C.

So i set me up some music going in the garage, fortified myself with some coffee time, put on the old sweat shirt and headed out to the garage.

I’d been meaning to get the boxes unpacked since it’s been 2 1/2 years since we moved in, but somehow the perfect time just never presented itself.  So one at a time, i picked a box and dug through the contents and either 1) pitched it out, 2) moved it to the appropriate place or, 3) donated it to the youth yard sale that is coming up.

SIX HOURS LATER…….it was almost done.

Thank goodness for Papa John’s dinner delivery special for V-day:

 

Happy Valentine’s Honey!



Friday ramblings

….there’s a little game going on at Facebook.  you’re supposed to write 25 things that people might not know about you.  i tried to start a list yesterday and got to #4.  i am boring

….i’m drinking coffee in a new “valentine” mug.  i am happy

….i have a box of Russell Stover Chocolates waiting for me at home (thanks honey!).  i am happy

….i need to clean out my garage tomorrow.  i am dreading that

….i am almost done with Maya Angelou’s book.  it has been fascinating and intriguing

….i am in the mood to color my hair a dark color.  B. said that would make me look old.  i’m chicken

….it’s been in the 70’s and 80’s this week.  i hope we have at least one more week of cold weather to enjoy the fireplace again.  i like chilly nights

….last nights’ Titletown Jazz concert was amazing!  It’s going to be playing on VSU’s channel 11 sometime soon.  you need to watch

….i have to sing Sunday and still haven’t picked out my song.  maybe i’ll get busy and write one



Movie night….

Have i blogged about this movie before?  Can’t remember.

It’s one of my new Holiday (or anytime) favorites…



swimming snow days?!

I borrowed this picture from Shaun Groves blog.  He was in Canada this weekend and saw this…

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Wow…..that’s some serious “in love with the swimming pool” thing going on.

Maybe i’ve missed it all this years?

I’ve been out by the pool on the hot hot hazy days of summer.

Sweating on a lounge chair and then jumping into the refresing water.

Maybe i should be sweating in the pool and then jumping out into the frigid air?